Get the boys to ace their groomsman duties
When it comes to weddings, much of the spotlight naturally falls on the bride and her bridesmaids. But let's not forget the unsung heroes of the day – the groomsmen! While being a groomsman is undoubtedly an honour, it also comes with its fair share of responsibilities. Fear not, gentlemen! We've compiled the ultimate guide to help you navigate your role with ease.
Support the Groom: First and foremost, your primary duty is to support the groom throughout the wedding planning process. Be his confidant, his wingman, and his voice of reason when needed. Listen intently and provide your best advice where needed.
Attend Events: From engagement parties to bachelor parties, make an effort to attend all pre-wedding events to show your support for the groom and bond with the rest of the wedding party. Not only will it strengthen your bond but it makes the man of the moment feel well taken care of.
Suit Up: Attend fittings and ensure your attire is on point for the big day. Whether it's a classic tuxedo or a more casual ensemble, make sure you look sharp and cohesive with the rest of the groomsmen. If you're unsure, consult the groom on accessories, shoes etc so that everyone looks neat and tidy.
Be Prompt: Arrive early on the wedding day to help with any last-minute preparations and to ensure everything runs smoothly. Punctuality is key! If you're staying over, make sure you're up before the groom and ready to handle any task thrown your way.
Assist the Groom: Help the groom get ready, whether it's tying his tie, fixing his boutonniere, a hug or offering words of encouragement. Your presence and support will help calm his nerves. It is a big moment after all!
Manage Logistics: Be the point person for any logistical issues that may arise, such as coordinating transportation or ensuring the groomsmen are where they need to be at the right time. On your wedding day, something unexpected always comes up so designate someone in the retinue to be the point of call for unexpected mishaps.
During the Ceremony: Stand tall and proud by the groom's side during the ceremony.
Hold the Rings: As the keeper of the rings (if there is no ring bearer), it's your responsibility to ensure they make it safely to the altar. Double-check that you have them before the ceremony begins!
Mix and Mingle: As an honoury member of the wedding party, it is your job to also be a gracious host. Mingle with guests, strike up conversations and ensure everyone is having a wonderful time. Your friendly presence will help set the tone for the reception.
Be ready for Photographs: There is a good chance that the bride and groom will request your presence for their special wedding photographs. Ensure you're on time and look neat and presentable. Follow the photographers lead and DON'T make it all about you!
Toast to the Couple: If you're lucky enough to deliver a speech or toast, put in the time and effort to prepare something heartfelt and sincere. Try not to include crude jokes, sexual innuendos or any inappropriate stories which may leave the happy couple embarrassed.
Vibe Check: Vibe check is super important and often an overlooked task. Hit the dance floor, encourage others to join in on the festivities and help the guests create unforgettable memories alongside the happy couple.
