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Start With a Bang

First impressions count, so kick off your speech with something attention-grabbing. A heartfelt quote, a funny one-liner, or a sweet “I’ve known [Bride] since we were in braces and matching butterfly clips” can set the tone and make everyone sit up and listen. Don’t be afraid to show your personality – this is your moment to connect with the room and make your friend feel like a million bucks!

Spotlight the Bride

This is her day, after all! Share stories that highlight the bride’s unique qualities - her kindness, sense of humour, quirks or how she’s been there for you in unforgettable ways. Nostalgic moments, such as childhood memories or milestones you’ve shared, add a personal touch that will resonate deeply with all listening.

Pro Tip: Stick to stories that will make the bride smile. Omit anything too embarrassing or overly personal or worse, something she would NOT be comfortable sharing.

Celebrate the Love Story

Now it’s time to talk about the couple! Reflect on their journey together, focusing on how the bride’s partner complements her. Mention a few moments that made you realise they were the real deal – perhaps the way they look at each other, their shared sense of humour or how they navigate life’s ups and downs as a team.

Bonus Points: If you’ve had a funny or touching interaction with the couple, weave it into your speech for a unique perspective.

Balance Heartfelt and Humorous

The best speeches strike a balance between sentimental and light-hearted. Share a few heartfelt moments that bring a tear to the eye but sprinkle in some humour to keep things lively. Think of it as a celebration of love and friendship, not a formal presentation. Whatever you do, don't get soppy and lose control.

Quick Do’s and Don’ts:
1. Do keep it classy - the in-laws are listening!
2. Don’t include inside jokes no one else will understand.
3. Don't include anything sexual or deeply personal that the couple won't be happy to share with the crowd.

Toast-Worthy Finish

End your speech on a high note by raising a toast to the couple. This is your chance to wish them a lifetime of love, happiness and adventure. Add a personal touch - like a fun nod to their shared interests or dreams to make it extra meaningful!

Pro Tips for a Flawless Speech

1. Practice, Practice, Practice: Rehearse your speech multiple times to feel confident and natural.
2. Keep it Short and Sweet: Aim for 3-5 minutes. Long enough to be meaningful but short enough to keep everyone’s attention.
3. Have Cue Cards: Jot down key points to stay on track if nerves kick in.
4. Speak From the Heart: Authenticity is what makes your speech shine, so let your love for the bride and the couple guide your words.

With these tips, your MOH speech will be a moment to remember. Whether you’re making the crowd laugh, cry, or both, your words will add a beautiful chapter to the couple’s wedding day. Now go out there and smash it MOH!