ohh im a divorced women and my fiance is 46 years old has never been married and has never even lived with a women before. we both have kids from previous partners and we moved in together in 2018. when he finally decided now its time to make a life with the women of his dreams. We then decided to get married Dec last year just having a normal Home affairs Wedding as we both have kids but we do not have the finance to have a proper wedding which i feel very disappointing in because he has never been married i have been and ive had my white wedding. i just feel broken that i cannot support him financially because i have two kids and he also have but we are surviving every month its just we cannot afford to save money for a wedding due to our responsibilities as parents. i think he deserves a big wedding because it will be his first wedding at this age and i think he would love to see me walking down the aisle as he is a very Godly man as well. we attend church every Sunday with my two kids as his kids lives with their mother. the least i can do is give him this surprise wedding which he will never forget and i think God gave me this Man who loves me unconditionally no matter what the financial situation is. please help me give my fiance the proper wedding he deserves. He doesn't show much emotions but i know he has a heart of Gold and everyone in East London who knows him will second that. i know he deserves this wedding of a lifetime of memories we just cannot afford to have one
he surprised me by inviting the his Priest to our Home last year October.we were sitting and talking and i thought maybe its just a normal visit from their Priest to check up on if we are ok. then the Priest asked him why is he there do we have any problems and he told the Priest the reason why the Priest is here is because he has now found the Women he asked God for and he want to Marry this women cause he prayed for 20 years and waited and waited and now he is ready and i looked very shocked cause i mean why would a man at this age never have been married hardly is talkative and had the guts to tell his Priest he met his wife and he wants a life with me. i sat there dumbstruck and then i couldn't even answer as he put his hand on my thigh and told his Priest this is her is everything the women he wants to come home to every day. and then his Priest asked me if its what i wanted and then i said Yes it is with tears in my eyes
