It started in 2014 October at an event whereby we were invited by the mutual family friend. Him and his three brothers attacked me in a conversation which I won, because I did not give them my cellphone numbers, but eventually later in the evening I gave his brother only my office telephone number. Weeks went by in December 2014 we had a date for the first time and he started to attend the my church in Durban. I ended up spending my new year's eve with him and we entered 2015 together. Our love grew from that day and we never looked back and now we are getting married in 2019 December.
First he proposed in December 2017 by asking if we can get married in December 2019, I said OK in a polite manner not taking anything seriously. He sent his uncles and his family in December 2018 at my home to begin lobola negotiations and we decided to set a date for December 2019. We are busy with wedding preparations and in April 10, he went down on his knee and properly asked for my hand in marriage, the best part for me is that he decided to do this in front of our kids... Which made me very happy.